Sollarim
@sollarim.bsky.social
Développeuse, geek, femme trans, gauchiste, introvertie trop sociable
Elle/she/her
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Elle/she/her
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Absolument ulcérée par ce qui se passe
January 29, 2025 at 1:21 PM
Absolument ulcérée par ce qui se passe
Someone I think has good taste: "I liked this book/series/game"
Me, a really strong-willed woman: "Why are you bullying me and forcibly preventing me from sleeping until I finish reading/watching/playing it..."
Me, a really strong-willed woman: "Why are you bullying me and forcibly preventing me from sleeping until I finish reading/watching/playing it..."
oh no it's happening again
got forced into reading Wrath Goddess Sing, please excuse me while i go do that for the next indeterminate amount of hours
December 13, 2024 at 10:48 AM
Someone I think has good taste: "I liked this book/series/game"
Me, a really strong-willed woman: "Why are you bullying me and forcibly preventing me from sleeping until I finish reading/watching/playing it..."
Me, a really strong-willed woman: "Why are you bullying me and forcibly preventing me from sleeping until I finish reading/watching/playing it..."
Se fire l'emblem
Se Sid Meier la civilisation
(Ça va moins faire les malins maintenant)
(Ça va moins faire les malins maintenant)
December 3, 2024 at 12:28 AM
Se fire l'emblem
Enceladus, because giant geysers are cool, of course.
Charon, the (totally legitimate) moon almost as big as its (not) planet.
The Moon is definitely the best moon (except when it was making my orbital mechanics' computations much more complex).
Charon, the (totally legitimate) moon almost as big as its (not) planet.
The Moon is definitely the best moon (except when it was making my orbital mechanics' computations much more complex).
I think it's important for a grown adult to have a top 3 favourite moons in the system. And don't include Europa, sorry but that's just crass and derivative.
November 26, 2024 at 12:27 AM
Enceladus, because giant geysers are cool, of course.
Charon, the (totally legitimate) moon almost as big as its (not) planet.
The Moon is definitely the best moon (except when it was making my orbital mechanics' computations much more complex).
Charon, the (totally legitimate) moon almost as big as its (not) planet.
The Moon is definitely the best moon (except when it was making my orbital mechanics' computations much more complex).
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Bon ben maintenant j'ai une excuse pour mon fil "Il se passe quoi si une ordure notoire connue pour ses provocations fait un coming-out trans ?".
Vu que c'est la question que, légitimement, se posent des gens.
Vu que c'est la question que, légitimement, se posent des gens.
November 19, 2024 at 10:35 AM
Bon ben maintenant j'ai une excuse pour mon fil "Il se passe quoi si une ordure notoire connue pour ses provocations fait un coming-out trans ?".
Vu que c'est la question que, légitimement, se posent des gens.
Vu que c'est la question que, légitimement, se posent des gens.
I'm only half-joking when I say "cosmic horror": I had to totally rewrite what I thought about identity and people's relation with themselves and their bodies.
Then, I could claim my own right to build a satisfying connection with my sense of self and my body (it's a hard but so worthwhile process).
Then, I could claim my own right to build a satisfying connection with my sense of self and my body (it's a hard but so worthwhile process).
Realising you're trans is basically overcoming the cosmic horror that cis people exist
November 4, 2024 at 11:21 AM
I'm only half-joking when I say "cosmic horror": I had to totally rewrite what I thought about identity and people's relation with themselves and their bodies.
Then, I could claim my own right to build a satisfying connection with my sense of self and my body (it's a hard but so worthwhile process).
Then, I could claim my own right to build a satisfying connection with my sense of self and my body (it's a hard but so worthwhile process).
As a trans person, an egg will, of course, relate so much to the stories told by their trans siblings.
It's so evident that, to realise that you are indeed trans, you need a real effort to conceptualise that some people can't relate, that these persons are cis and constitute most of the society.
It's so evident that, to realise that you are indeed trans, you need a real effort to conceptualise that some people can't relate, that these persons are cis and constitute most of the society.
If you've built up dysphoria as this necessary thing one needs that's keeping you from believing you're trans, listen well: You're not alone. A lot of us did this, myself included.
But that ache, that longing you feel, IS the dysphoria.
What else could it be?
But that ache, that longing you feel, IS the dysphoria.
What else could it be?
November 4, 2024 at 12:57 AM
As a trans person, an egg will, of course, relate so much to the stories told by their trans siblings.
It's so evident that, to realise that you are indeed trans, you need a real effort to conceptualise that some people can't relate, that these persons are cis and constitute most of the society.
It's so evident that, to realise that you are indeed trans, you need a real effort to conceptualise that some people can't relate, that these persons are cis and constitute most of the society.
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gender affirming surgery that gives u telekinesis
November 3, 2024 at 7:40 AM
gender affirming surgery that gives u telekinesis
I haven't yet recovered from what happened at a friend's house-warming party two weeks ago.
During that night, a 3 or 4 years old boy asked his mother to tell me I looked like a queen 😳
I think it's one of the most affirming events I lived in almost 3 years of transition ☺️
During that night, a 3 or 4 years old boy asked his mother to tell me I looked like a queen 😳
I think it's one of the most affirming events I lived in almost 3 years of transition ☺️
October 27, 2024 at 9:20 PM
I haven't yet recovered from what happened at a friend's house-warming party two weeks ago.
During that night, a 3 or 4 years old boy asked his mother to tell me I looked like a queen 😳
I think it's one of the most affirming events I lived in almost 3 years of transition ☺️
During that night, a 3 or 4 years old boy asked his mother to tell me I looked like a queen 😳
I think it's one of the most affirming events I lived in almost 3 years of transition ☺️
Being a lesbian may have delayed a bit the realization/acceptance that I was trans.
But I'm so thankful for my wonderful sister 🩷, who has been for years a relatable inspiration as a proud lesbian, and helped me become much more confident to use this label myself.
But I'm so thankful for my wonderful sister 🩷, who has been for years a relatable inspiration as a proud lesbian, and helped me become much more confident to use this label myself.
i felt so ashamed of wanting to be a lesbian 💀 it took me more than a year into transition before i could feel even a little legitimate calling myself a lesbian
October 17, 2024 at 3:11 PM
Being a lesbian may have delayed a bit the realization/acceptance that I was trans.
But I'm so thankful for my wonderful sister 🩷, who has been for years a relatable inspiration as a proud lesbian, and helped me become much more confident to use this label myself.
But I'm so thankful for my wonderful sister 🩷, who has been for years a relatable inspiration as a proud lesbian, and helped me become much more confident to use this label myself.
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for all that GCs wax lyrical about us invading women space, we often traumatized ourselves trying to be good boys who respect women and need lots of work to get in the door
we hurt ourselves really bad when performing "guy", it doesn't make it easier that it was the good or the bad bits of manhood!
we hurt ourselves really bad when performing "guy", it doesn't make it easier that it was the good or the bad bits of manhood!
yes, it felt *violating*, like i was actually forcing my way somewhere i was unwelcome and i'm still working through that even now
October 17, 2024 at 1:33 PM
for all that GCs wax lyrical about us invading women space, we often traumatized ourselves trying to be good boys who respect women and need lots of work to get in the door
we hurt ourselves really bad when performing "guy", it doesn't make it easier that it was the good or the bad bits of manhood!
we hurt ourselves really bad when performing "guy", it doesn't make it easier that it was the good or the bad bits of manhood!
For me, the bar is actually too low, as I think my height is the main obstacle for my passing...
October 11, 2024 at 2:32 PM
For me, the bar is actually too low, as I think my height is the main obstacle for my passing...
Nathalie Heinich lors de la nuit du 4 août :
"Vous n'avez pas honte de stigmatiser les nobles et le clergé, en voulant abolir leurs «privilèges» ? En plus, la noblesse est héréditaire, les nobles n'ont pas choisi de naître avec ces soi-disant avantages !"
"Vous n'avez pas honte de stigmatiser les nobles et le clergé, en voulant abolir leurs «privilèges» ? En plus, la noblesse est héréditaire, les nobles n'ont pas choisi de naître avec ces soi-disant avantages !"
September 27, 2024 at 10:42 AM
Nathalie Heinich lors de la nuit du 4 août :
"Vous n'avez pas honte de stigmatiser les nobles et le clergé, en voulant abolir leurs «privilèges» ? En plus, la noblesse est héréditaire, les nobles n'ont pas choisi de naître avec ces soi-disant avantages !"
"Vous n'avez pas honte de stigmatiser les nobles et le clergé, en voulant abolir leurs «privilèges» ? En plus, la noblesse est héréditaire, les nobles n'ont pas choisi de naître avec ces soi-disant avantages !"
10 games to get to know me ✨️
🏛 Zeus: Master of Olympus
👑 Crusader King 2
🍓 Celeste
🗺 Europa Universalis 4
🩸 Hades
⭐️ Rimworld
⏳️ Outer Wilds
⚽️ Football Manager
🚀 Kerbal Space Program
⚔️ Fire Emblem: Radiant Dawn
🏛 Zeus: Master of Olympus
👑 Crusader King 2
🍓 Celeste
🗺 Europa Universalis 4
🩸 Hades
⭐️ Rimworld
⏳️ Outer Wilds
⚽️ Football Manager
🚀 Kerbal Space Program
⚔️ Fire Emblem: Radiant Dawn
10 games to get to know me 💫
💺Ico
🧵Loom
🦋Life is Strange
🦠Super Metroid
🎍Okami
🧙♀️The Cosmic Wheel Sisterhood
🧬Technobabylon
🌠Shadow of Memories
⛰️Celeste
🗡️Final Fantasy VI
💺Ico
🧵Loom
🦋Life is Strange
🦠Super Metroid
🎍Okami
🧙♀️The Cosmic Wheel Sisterhood
🧬Technobabylon
🌠Shadow of Memories
⛰️Celeste
🗡️Final Fantasy VI
10 games to get to know me 🌸
🎭 persona 5
🗡️ final fantasy 9
🤖 into the breach
👑 fire emblem : three houses
🧙♀️ the cosmic wheel sisterhood
🦇 batman arkham city
💀 hades
✨ final fantasy 12
🌸 final fantasy 10
👻 the witcher 3
🎭 persona 5
🗡️ final fantasy 9
🤖 into the breach
👑 fire emblem : three houses
🧙♀️ the cosmic wheel sisterhood
🦇 batman arkham city
💀 hades
✨ final fantasy 12
🌸 final fantasy 10
👻 the witcher 3
September 3, 2024 at 3:10 PM
10 games to get to know me ✨️
🏛 Zeus: Master of Olympus
👑 Crusader King 2
🍓 Celeste
🗺 Europa Universalis 4
🩸 Hades
⭐️ Rimworld
⏳️ Outer Wilds
⚽️ Football Manager
🚀 Kerbal Space Program
⚔️ Fire Emblem: Radiant Dawn
🏛 Zeus: Master of Olympus
👑 Crusader King 2
🍓 Celeste
🗺 Europa Universalis 4
🩸 Hades
⭐️ Rimworld
⏳️ Outer Wilds
⚽️ Football Manager
🚀 Kerbal Space Program
⚔️ Fire Emblem: Radiant Dawn
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Communiqué du conseil d'administration
June 30, 2024 at 6:52 PM
Communiqué du conseil d'administration
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Face à l'extrême-droite, la seule politique digne c'est de se retirer et d'appeler à vaincre le FN. C'est tout. Si un parti ne fait pas ça il les fait gagner. Il les soutient.
June 30, 2024 at 6:08 PM
Face à l'extrême-droite, la seule politique digne c'est de se retirer et d'appeler à vaincre le FN. C'est tout. Si un parti ne fait pas ça il les fait gagner. Il les soutient.
Why are you LGBTQ+, **correct** answers only
I think that asserting myself as trans was the first time I ever felt a bit in control of my life, and not just going with the flow of what was expected for me.
Also, I couldn't let my sister alone as the only LGBTQ+ (out at that time) in the family!
I think that asserting myself as trans was the first time I ever felt a bit in control of my life, and not just going with the flow of what was expected for me.
Also, I couldn't let my sister alone as the only LGBTQ+ (out at that time) in the family!
why are you LGBTQ+, **correct** answers only
there was pandemic or something and i didn't have anywhere to escape my room or my gender so i had to fix up the place
there was pandemic or something and i didn't have anywhere to escape my room or my gender so i had to fix up the place
why are you LGBTQ+, correct answers only
i saw someone posting about HRT on twitter and thought "sure, fuck it, why not" before putting it on my 'see if this can fix you' bucket list
i saw someone posting about HRT on twitter and thought "sure, fuck it, why not" before putting it on my 'see if this can fix you' bucket list
June 17, 2024 at 9:52 PM
Why are you LGBTQ+, **correct** answers only
I think that asserting myself as trans was the first time I ever felt a bit in control of my life, and not just going with the flow of what was expected for me.
Also, I couldn't let my sister alone as the only LGBTQ+ (out at that time) in the family!
I think that asserting myself as trans was the first time I ever felt a bit in control of my life, and not just going with the flow of what was expected for me.
Also, I couldn't let my sister alone as the only LGBTQ+ (out at that time) in the family!
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I made this Pride flag using only NASA images and our team thought it would be cool to share on social (I work on the NASA heliophysics communications team), but it's getting all sorts of hate on the bird app and Fbook. Thought y'all might be more appreciative of it here. ☺️🏳️🌈💖
June 14, 2024 at 2:19 AM
I made this Pride flag using only NASA images and our team thought it would be cool to share on social (I work on the NASA heliophysics communications team), but it's getting all sorts of hate on the bird app and Fbook. Thought y'all might be more appreciative of it here. ☺️🏳️🌈💖
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a girl can dream
June 14, 2024 at 1:16 PM
a girl can dream
One of the benefits of being an almost 2 m tall trans woman is that I can look from above at almost all of the men on the dance floor with a patronising look that means "I'm taller and much hotter than you, poor thing..."
June 7, 2024 at 12:09 AM
One of the benefits of being an almost 2 m tall trans woman is that I can look from above at almost all of the men on the dance floor with a patronising look that means "I'm taller and much hotter than you, poor thing..."
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I should do a "How the campaign heroes in Warcraft 3 would react to you coming out as trans"
June 6, 2024 at 11:53 AM
I should do a "How the campaign heroes in Warcraft 3 would react to you coming out as trans"
Merci à @elmogurito.bsky.social d'être la première personne que j'entends faire le lien entre Lorelei and the Laser Eyes et la zététique, dans l'Hebdo d'il y a 2 semaines (que je rattrape enfin).
Cette blague me semblait tellement évidente et drôle, ça me rassure d'enfin la voir apparaître !
Cette blague me semblait tellement évidente et drôle, ça me rassure d'enfin la voir apparaître !
June 6, 2024 at 8:24 AM
Merci à @elmogurito.bsky.social d'être la première personne que j'entends faire le lien entre Lorelei and the Laser Eyes et la zététique, dans l'Hebdo d'il y a 2 semaines (que je rattrape enfin).
Cette blague me semblait tellement évidente et drôle, ça me rassure d'enfin la voir apparaître !
Cette blague me semblait tellement évidente et drôle, ça me rassure d'enfin la voir apparaître !
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Magneto Was Right.
…I mean "Happy Pride."
…I mean "Happy Pride."
June 1, 2024 at 3:02 PM
Magneto Was Right.
…I mean "Happy Pride."
…I mean "Happy Pride."
Je suis vraiment heureuse de soutenir cet incroyable podcast qui régulièrement me fait éclater de rire toute seule dans le métro !
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Écouter le nouvel épisode de @onatoutvu.bsky.social à l’aéroport. Rigoler tout seul. Je pense que je passe pour un mec bizarre
May 31, 2024 at 2:06 PM
Je suis vraiment heureuse de soutenir cet incroyable podcast qui régulièrement me fait éclater de rire toute seule dans le métro !