Somewhere between the hustle, the heartbreak, and the doctor’s visits, Phoenix Ash realized she wasn’t chasing success, she was chasing everything. In this episode of Life as P..., P is done pretending that “just attract it” is some kind of magical mindset hack. She’s breaking down why that advice feels vague, and how she finally figured out how to stop gripping so tight to outcomes that were never hers to control. From her sister’s glowing example of leveling up without the scramble (Switzerland on the horizon, hello?!), to the deeply personal journey through love, loss, fertility treatments, and letting go,this one’s for the listeners who are exhausted from trying to outrun their own expectations. We’re talking toxic love stories, TikTok trauma bait, advice without context, and how external validation will rob you of your joy faster than a nosy in-law shopping for your house. There’s power in healing, but only if you stop trying to do it alone and in silence. And yes, she said what she said. If you’re finally ready to shift from chasing the picture to feeling fulfilled, this episode isn’t your blueprint, it’s your mirror.  👉🏽 Grab her books https://www.amazon.com/stores/Phoenix-Ash/author/B078GVTP2M/, available on Amazon, Kindle, Audible, and paperback. 👉🏽 Hit the https://shop.saywharadio.com/ to rep your favorite shows with some fire merch. 👉🏽 Follow Phoenix for more gems: 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/pwrites 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/AuthorPhoenixA

Ever had that epiphany mid-chaos when you realize... Oh snap. I wasn’t lost—I was already in it? That’s the vibe Phoenix Ash is riding this week on Life As P…. October may have rolled in with her pumpkin-spice promises, but September left her spiritual banana peels everywhere. In this raw and reflective episode, P gets deep about how purpose isn’t just about what you do....it’s about who you are, and sometimes, what you unintentionally become to others. From writer’s block that won’t pay rent to offering soul-saving advice with zero ROI, P opens up about what it’s like to pour from a cup that was meant to overflow. She breaks down the difference between sympathy and empathy, why your internal critic might sound like someone you outgrew, and how validation shouldn’t be your GPS. This one’s for the purpose-seekers, the soul-lifters, the “why-can’t-I-write?” creatives, and everyone out here wondering if their calling has been whispering all along. (Spoiler: It has.) 📚 Cop Phoenix Ash’s books on Kindle, Audible, and paperback right here: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Phoenix-Ash/author/B078GVTP2M/ 🛍️ Get your life and your merch at the https://shop.saywharadio.com/ – support the network, support the movement. 💬 Stay connected: Instagram: https://instagram.com/pwrites Twitter/X: https://twitter.com/AuthorPhoenixA TikTok:

Let’s face it.....life be lifin’. But what if you stopped white-knuckling your way through the storm and just… let it do what it do? In this beautifully raw and refreshingly real episode of Life as P..., Phoenix Ash invites you into her mental notes app of survival, struggle, and straight-up spiritual glow-ups. From wrestling with fears that exist only in our heads (hello, F.A.E: False Avidence Evidence 👀) to realizing your ex thriving ain't a betrayal but proof growth is contagious, this episode will have you rethinking everything from pivot tables to prayer.  Phoenix talks single parenting, financial storms, gender wars, emotional labor, and the lost art of letting go without giving up. She’s flipping the script on "trying hard" and leaning into divine investment. Because sometimes, the best plan? Is to stop planning. Let it do what it do. Oh, and did we mention she’s got Excel jokes and forensics class anecdotes? You ain’t never heard resilience explained like this. 💥 Want more unfiltered Phoenix wisdom? Snag her books, including the latest Audible banger Soil Sheets narrated by Nicole Cash, over on her https://www.amazon.com/stores/Phoenix-Ash/author/B078GVTP2M/. 🛒 And don’t forget to stop by the https://shop.saywharadio.com/ to cop merch for all the SayWHA Radio Network podcasts. Because growth looks better in drip. 📲 Let’s stay connected: Instagram: https://instagram.com/pwrites Twitter: https://twitter.com/AuthorPhoenixA 🎧 Press play. Then let the universe cook.

Overflowing with blessings but still feeling stuck? Phoenix Ash (aka P) is asking the hard-hitting question we all dodge: What exactly are you doing with your abundance? Whether it’s ideas, creativity, privilege, influence or just that list of unfinished drafts on your hard drive this episode breaks down how having “too much” can sometimes feel like not enough. From her first Random House-published short story to a capstone-turned-TV-series, and a bookshelf full of emotionally raw titles, P walks us through the beautiful chaos of having it all but struggling to let go. Expect deep dives into legacy-building, creative paralysis, family dynamics, and the real reason your dream might still be sitting in Google Docs. Plus: TV deals? Ghostwriting? Monetizing the mind? Yep, P’s blueprint for turning the flood into a faucet with purpose might be the spark your own cluttered brilliance needs. 👑 Audible freebies, hard truths, and one powerful reminder: abundance ain’t just for stacking, it’s for sharing.  🎧 Tap in. 📚 Grab her books: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Phoenix-Ash/author/B078GVTP2M/ 🛍 Cop the merch: https://shop.saywharadio.com/ 📱Follow for more: Instagram: https://instagram.com/pwrites Twitter: https://twitter.com/AuthorPhoenixA

🚧Sometimes things have to fall apart so you can put them back together the way they were always meant to be. In this deeply honest and layered episode, Phoenix Ash unpacks what it means to grow while shedding parts of yourself that no longer serve you.  She’s reflecting on everything from the unexpected truths of parenting to how healing really feels when you’re in the middle of it. Expect a real talk breakdown of dating rules, financial friction in relationships, building and breaking emotional walls, and what it really takes to feel safe with someone.  There’s love for the community, side-eyes for internet dating advice, and a powerful reminder that growth is messy, emotional, and absolutely worth it. If you’ve been rethinking your own standards, priorities, or people... this one will speak directly to your spirit.  📚 Support Phoenix Ash’s author work by picking up Soil Sheets, In Her Makeup, and Long Neck Bottles on https://www.amazon.com/stores/Phoenix-Ash/author/B078GVTP2M/. 🛍 Don’t forget to stop by the https://shop.saywharadio.com/ to grab merch from all your favorite SayWHA Radio Network podcasts. 📲 Stay connected: Instagram: https://instagram.com/pwrites Twitter: https://twitter.com/AuthorPhoenixA

If you’ve ever told yourself “I’m over it” with the passion of a daytime soap character only to be, well, not over it—this one’s for you. In "Until It’s In Your Face," Phoenix Ash invites you into a candid corner of life where unspoken feelings do loud things, nine-year-olds become your emotional mirror, and “just let it go” sounds more like a dare than advice. From sponsor drama to personal epiphanies, Phoenix weaves through the unscripted chaos of life with humor, vulnerability, and a sharp eye for truth. This episode hits everything from the subtle art of overthinking to the quiet rebellion of choosing yourself—even when respect, connection, and timing are MIA. And if you've ever mistaken silence for peace, or over-empathy for connection, Phoenix is here to untangle those knots with you. Plus, catch updates on his latest creative project, “Soil Sheets,” available now on https://www.amazon.com/stores/Phoenix-Ash/author/B078GVTP2M/. It's the perfect read/listen if you love storytelling that pulls no punches. 👀 Craving more? Keep up with Phoenix on: 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/pwrites 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/AuthorPhoenixA 📘 Facebook: Phoenix’s Fireflies 🛍️ And don’t forget to stop by the https://shop.saywharadio.com/ for fresh merch and support all the SayWHA Radio Network Podcasts.

We’ve all had that “Oh no… was I the drama?” moment....Phoenix Ash just made hers public. In this emotionally charged yet soul-nourishing episode of Life as P..., P gets raw about nearly fumbling a real one. From second-guessing a breakup to untangling hormonal hurricanes (hey PCOS, perimenopause....we see you), this episode isn’t just self-reflection, it’s a full-on emotional audit. There’s emotional maturity, real-life receipts, and a deep dive into why we sometimes ghost the good ones… only to realize we might be haunted by our own fears instead. Trust, if you've ever self-sabotaged, this one's going to hit like a delayed text from your ex… except more healing and less chaotic. 🔥 Don’t forget to support Phoenix Ash’s books via her https://www.amazon.com/stores/Phoenix-Ash/author/B078GVTP2M/. 🛍️ Grab some gear and flex your support at the https://shop.saywharadio.com/. 📲 Follow the vibes: Instagram: https://instagram.com/pwrites Twitter: https://twitter.com/AuthorPhoenixA

What happens when empathy isn't a superpower—but a silent trap? In this heart-tugging, brain-sparking episode of Life as P..., Phoenix Ash holds nothing back. From the silent tug-of-war between empathy and self-preservation to the unexpected guilt of breaking up with the “perfect-on-paper” partner, this episode unpacks the emotional gymnastics many of us perform just to keep others comfortable. She’s getting real about how being the “safe place” can become unsafe for you—and why letting go doesn’t always mean giving up. Expect sharp self-reflection, dating drama with a moral compass, and that Phoenix-level maturity check we all secretly need. Bonus? She’s got updates on her latest audiobook drop and more from her collection that’ll have you screaming “TAKE MY MONEY.” Craving clarity with a side of soul food? This one’s for you. 📚 Grab Phoenix Ash’s books and support her pen game: 👉 https://www.amazon.com/stores/Phoenix-Ash/author/B078GVTP2M/ 🛒 Rep your favorite show with some merch magic at the https://shop.saywharadio.com/ 📱 Stay in the loop & vibe with Phoenix Ash online: Instagram: https://instagram.com/pwrites Twitter: https://twitter.com/AuthorPhoenixA

Ever get hit with a pain so real it feels like the universe just flipped your table and screamed, “Time to level up”? In this raw and revelatory episode, Phoenix Ash digs into the hurt — the kind that rewrites your diet, breaks your heart, checks your empathy, and still somehow becomes your teacher. From stomach cramps to soul shifts, Phoenix shares how pain is often the plot twist life uses to get us to our next chapter. Whether it’s a messy breakup, a medical scare, or a creative block that won’t budge, pain’s got one job: make you pay attention. And spoiler — it’s doing it really well. She’s breaking it down like only P can — no fluff, no pity parties, just the truth about how the pressure of pain creates diamonds… and also gives you a way better book ending. 📚 Want to see how Phoenix turns pain into prose? Cop her books here: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Phoenix-Ash/author/B078GVTP2M/ 📲 Stay connected for the real-time gems: Instagram: https://instagram.com/pwrites Twitter: https://twitter.com/AuthorPhoenixA 🛍️ Cop some heat and support Life as P... and all SayWHA Radio Network shows: https://shop.saywharadio.com/

Sometimes being the “nice one” just isn’t it. In this episode, Phoenix Ash unpacks the tightrope walk between compassion and cold-blooded boundary-setting. Whether it’s dodging DMs from old flings with nostalgia amnesia, managing work chaos with surgical precision, or parenting with love and a firm “because I said so” — your girl is calling out the real: being labeled the a**hole might just mean you’re finally taking care of yourself. Phoenix spills on how being direct isn’t being rude, it’s being real. From shady text messages to toddler negotiations to co-worker time warpers, this episode is full of that energy. Think less people-pleasing, more peace-keeping (by any grown-ass means necessary).  Want more Phoenix? Check out her books here: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Phoenix-Ash/author/B078GVTP2M/ 📲 Follow her life in letters: Instagram: https://instagram.com/pwrites Twitter: https://twitter.com/AuthorPhoenixA 👕 Grab some fire merch repping Life as P... and other SayWHA Radio Network faves: https://shop.saywharadio.com/