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Melissa Febos
@melissafebos.bsky.social
Author of five books—next up The Dry Season 6/3/25

Thoughts my own and not representing any institution.

https://linktr.ee/melissafebos
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https://www.prairielights.com/pre-order-dry-season-june-2025-prairie-lights-0
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Join us tonight at 7 pm for a double feature reading by @melissafebos.bsky.social and @donikakelly.bsky.social!
November 5, 2025 at 7:29 PM
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@melissafebos.bsky.social comes out swinging in her essay “Nothing is Gayer than My Love for Women’s Basketball.” I wasn’t fully prepared to have the collection begin with such storytelling awesomeness.
October 16, 2025 at 10:59 PM
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Today on the program, my guest is @melissafebos.bsky.social, author of THE DRY SEASON: A MEMOIR OF PLEASURE IN A YEAR WITHOUT SEX. @aaknopf.bsky.social

🎧 Available wherever you get your podcasts.
October 5, 2025 at 5:41 PM
Ah, I’m so glad!
Just came from @melissafebos.bsky.social's Memoir for the Apocalypse class through Corporeal Writing, and my synapses are firing. A lot of craft talks fall flat for me. Melissa's always get me back into my groove and writing fearlessly. This one in particular hit the spot!
October 4, 2025 at 7:46 PM
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September 28, 2025 at 12:24 PM
Honored to be in this year’s anthology!
Hanif Abdurraqib has curated an extraordinary collection showcasing incredible feats and diverse perspectives across the world of sports. We're honored to announce this year's featured writers! Pre-order The Year's Best Sports Writing 2025 today: buff.ly/7gs9meT
September 3, 2025 at 6:02 PM
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Melissa Febos is one of the fiercest, most brilliant writers I know, with a gift for seeing straight to the heart of things. I'm grateful for her generous words about TRAVELING IN BARDO. @melissafebos.bsky.social

Out 9/9 from Balance/Hachette! Pre-order: www.hachettebookgroup.com/titles/ann-t...
August 18, 2025 at 3:46 PM
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Why did I love this? "Maybe it’s the juxtaposition of memoir as academic dissertation with memoir as blunt 'can we talk?' observations...Perhaps it’s just that she really knows how to frame and tell a story." My review of @melissafebos.bsky.social THE DRY SEASON in @wirobooks.bsky.social.
July 21, 2025 at 4:14 PM
Personally would love to hang w @halaayala.bsky.social in the sun
Two summer books from well-seasoned writers to enjoy in the sun: I’ll Tell You When I’m Home (@avidreaderpress.bsky.social) by Hala Alyan & The Dry Season: A Memoir of Pleasure in a Year Without Sex (@aaknopf.bsky.social) by @melissafebos.bsky.social. #PageOne at.pw.org/PageOne2025x4
July 15, 2025 at 7:12 PM
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Also, I can't help recommending yet again @melissafebos.bsky.social 's brilliant essay, "Do You Want to Be Known For Your Writing, or For Your Swift Email Responses?":

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#amwriting #amtranslating #freelancelifestyle #writingcomminity
Do You Want to Be Known For Your Writing, or For Your Swift Email Responses?
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June 30, 2025 at 8:17 AM
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Seems like a good time to reshare @dalepeck.bsky.social on Andrew Sullivan
Bad Faith | Dale Peck
Andrew Sullivan first showed up on my radar in 1991, an innocuous blip that gave no indication of the full-frontal assault about to be launched on the American left. I was working for OutWeek at the…
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June 26, 2025 at 9:12 PM
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"Writing is a form of alchemy that gives very bad decisions value in hindsight”

In a new interview, Melissa Febos (@melissafebos.bsky.social‬) speaks to Mauricio Ruiz about her year of celibacy, which is the subject of her new book, "The Dry Season." Check it out below!
Celebrating Intimacy of Self: Mauricio Ruiz interviews Melissa Febos
MELISSA FEBOS <br> At the end of that year, I felt whole. I was ready for the kinds of growing that I could only do in conjunction with another person
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June 23, 2025 at 6:02 PM
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Calling it now: @melissafebos.bsky.social’s THE DRY SEASON is the book of the summer
June 24, 2025 at 4:06 PM
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"It seems so much easier and sexier to have a big revelation but a big revelation contains no instructions for actual change."
@melissafebos.bsky.social on her new #book THE DRY SEASON

interviewed by @ninasharmawriter.bsky.social via @electricliterature.com

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Melissa Febos on Stepping Outside the Sexual Economy - Electric Literature
“The Dry Season” reframes celibacy as an opportunity to explore pleasure and joy
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June 18, 2025 at 4:38 PM
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Great to chat with @melissafebos.bsky.social on the podcast. Enjoy a coffee-stained quote card, a CNF Pod original!
June 16, 2025 at 3:39 PM
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"I felt so whole and complete, and I do think that that’s part of what qualified me for a different kind of relationship"

Mauricio Ruiz interviewed Melissa Febos (@melissafebos.bsky.social‬) about her new book, "The Dry Season," and her year of celibacy. Check it out below!

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Celebrating Intimacy of Self: Mauricio Ruiz interviews Melissa Febos
MELISSA FEBOS <br> At the end of that year, I felt whole. I was ready for the kinds of growing that I could only do in conjunction with another person
buff.ly
June 16, 2025 at 2:07 PM
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I’m in conversation with my beloved friend Melissa Febos at Harvard Book Store this Wednesday, 7m, to talk about her stunning new book, The Dry Season: A Memoir of Pleasure in a Year Without Sex. Please join us if you can.
June 10, 2025 at 3:19 AM
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I’m in conversation with my beloved friend Melissa Febos at Harvard Book Store this Wednesday, 7m, to talk about her stunning new book, The Dry Season: A Memoir of Pleasure in a Year Without Sex. Please join us if you can.
June 11, 2025 at 8:28 PM
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We have an excerpt from The Dry Season by @melissafebos.bsky.social up on the site today: hazlitt.net/feature/freq...
Frequency Illusion | Hazlitt
Love was not a drink, and my pursuit of it did not fit perfectly into the rubric of addiction, but it had taken me.
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June 11, 2025 at 3:11 PM
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@melissafebos.bsky.social + Leslie Jamison last night at Books are Magic / Public Records was the best kind of literary pandemonium! NYC: Don’t miss Melissa TONIGHT @strandbookstore.bsky.social with Stephanie Danler! (Even though it says sold out, go…they’ll make room for you!)
June 10, 2025 at 5:36 PM
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Happy #PubDay, @sgriest.bsky.social‬! 🖌️

ART ABOVE EVERYTHING, her global exploration of queer, BIPOC, and women artists who discuss the gifts, costs, and redemptive power of pursuing a creative life, is “a deep, moving, radical book.” — @melissafebos.bsky.socialbuff.ly/y1mJfCw
June 10, 2025 at 1:13 PM
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Folks in LA please be careful and refer to this guide for protest gear from Hong Kong’s 2018 anti-extradition protest, in case you need some helpful, well-tested gear suggestions against heavily armed police that are liberal with tear gas.
June 7, 2025 at 9:16 PM
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At @memoirland.bsky.social I spoke with the one and only @melissafebos.bsky.social AND she took The Memoir Land Author Questionnaire. memoirland.substack.com/p/the-memoir...
June 6, 2025 at 6:42 PM
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Got to chat with @melissafebos.bsky.social and we had a pretty sweet jam sesh, not gonna lie, friend.

Listen wherever you get your pods, and be sure to check out the beefy shownotes.

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June 6, 2025 at 6:58 PM