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EXBF
@exbfband.bsky.social
Colin, Peter, Chriso ♾️
https://ex-boyfriends.bandcamp.com
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Hey hey, we’re on Bandcamp! All 3 of our albums are now available to stream and to download - pay as much or as little as you want! We’ll be adding some demos, non-album tracks and radio sessions soon too, so you can EXBF your hearts out! 💗💗💗
Ex-Boyfriends
Colin, Peter, Chriso ♾️
ex-boyfriends.bandcamp.com
More new songs + the general joy of making sound together = dream weekend.
August 11, 2025 at 12:56 AM
Oh heyyyy, did we just knock out four new songs together like no time has passed? We absolutely did!! 💗💗💗
May 25, 2025 at 1:34 AM
Good news: Chriso still knows how to play drums! After two-ish years away from a kit they’re warming up in Portland before Ex-Boyfriends are reunited and it feels so good in SF later this month. Can you tell which EXBF song these drums belong to?
May 8, 2025 at 2:34 AM
Oh hey, it’s Bandcamp Friday! We have our stuff set up as “pay what you want,” but if you pay any money dollars we’ll get all of it without fees. Luxurious!
Ex-Boyfriends
Colin, Peter, Chriso ♾️
ex-boyfriends.bandcamp.com
May 2, 2025 at 8:59 PM
This isn’t a cover from the famous musical but we bet Julie Andrews would’ve torn it up on vocals!
The Sound of Your Music, by Ex-Boyfriends
from the album In With
ex-boyfriends.bandcamp.com
April 25, 2025 at 9:13 PM
Back when our songs were on Apple Music (in its iTunes days) we received our two best reviews ever from the scathing, relentless music critic ‘rockchic1.’Personally we love the use of “thus” and “nor” anytime someone discusses our music that makes no sense!
April 15, 2025 at 6:23 AM
Another EXBF ear worm for your Saturday! Have we ever played this live successfully without having to start over? Let’s pretend we have! 😅
Sticky Legs, by Ex-Boyfriends
from the album Line In/Line Out
ex-boyfriends.bandcamp.com
April 13, 2025 at 2:19 AM
Chriso here. I’ve had this song stuck in my head all day and now you can too! @localindy.bsky.social always has a way with lyrics but I always love when he gets pointed with them. A sonic jab to late 2000s Bay Area scenester bands and their devotees.
Saving Face, by Ex-Boyfriends
from the album In With
ex-boyfriends.bandcamp.com
April 12, 2025 at 7:48 PM
Thanks for the tip, J-Simp! Get ready for some sssssssssilky smooth vocalsssss on the next album! 🐍💦
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April 9, 2025 at 1:03 AM
If they put a tariff on music we’re all effed (like we aren’t already 😅) But for now you can pay whatever you want for all of our music on Bandcamp! Bop your head while you watch the realtime dumpster fire burn!! 🤷🏻🎸🎤🥁
Ex-Boyfriends
Colin, Peter, Chriso ♾️
ex-boyfriends.bandcamp.com
April 4, 2025 at 9:30 PM
Pop quiz! When we played Spaceland in 2004 which of the following happened:
A) We changed the CD player in our rental to say insert dicks instead of insert discs
B) Peter got so drunk on promo whiskey he told us a secret fetish
C) Colin Porky Pigged it to the bathroom and we all saw his butt
March 30, 2025 at 8:52 PM
In honor of Chriso spending some time on the phone with someone named Meghan today (not band related), here’s our song of the same name off of ‘Dear John.’ Bask in the haunting and echoing vocals of Colin and Peter and don’t forget the “Be My Baby” drum ripoff moment.
Meghan, by Ex-Boyfriends
from the album Dear John
ex-boyfriends.bandcamp.com
March 28, 2025 at 1:03 AM
Does anyone else need a boost today? You should spend your next 3 minutes with our song “Pickup Line,” the opening from our album ‘In With.’ It’s a paean to the joy of new love and all its electric, anticipatory excitement and it features Colin and Peter harmonizing their brains out!
Pick Up Line, by Ex-Boyfriends
from the album In With
ex-boyfriends.bandcamp.com
March 26, 2025 at 10:18 PM
Here’s some portraits from the same Clue/murder shoot. Photos by @notsotough.bsky.social of course!
March 23, 2025 at 12:16 AM
Yes or yes should we try to replicate this photo for our next album? Bonus points if you’ll be there to pull our ancient asses off of the floor afterward! 🤣
March 22, 2025 at 8:50 PM
It’s official!! Chriso is heading to SF at the end of May to work with Colin and Peter on the first new Ex-Boyfriends songs since 2013!!!
a group of muppets are playing instruments in a dark room .
ALT: a group of muppets are playing instruments in a dark room .
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March 18, 2025 at 6:36 PM
It’s a rainy day (where Chriso is at least) so have a little live angst from us at the Hemlock Tavern!!
Ex-Boyfriends: "It's Not Me It's You" Live @ Hemlock Tavern
YouTube video by ExBoyfriends
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March 16, 2025 at 12:10 AM
True or False? We once opened for freestyle diva Debbie Deb!!
When I Hear Music
YouTube video by Debbie Deb - Topic
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March 14, 2025 at 9:13 PM
On August 8, 2005 we had the huge honor to play at THEE Great American Music Hall opening for local faves Loquat and Citizens Here & Abroad. Getting to play at such a beloved SF venue was a huge blast and Chriso sneakily asked mayoral hopeful Matt Gonzalez what he thought of the set - he dug it!
March 13, 2025 at 10:20 PM
Still stumbling on old reviews and nice stuff people wrote about us back in the day. Check out this sweet review of ‘Dear John’ from @treblezine.bsky.social!
The Ex-Boyfriends : Dear John - Treble
Ex marks the spot.
www.treblezine.com
March 11, 2025 at 9:43 PM
A rare quiet moment on ‘Dear John’ as Colin sings out the heartbreaking final moments of a relationship.
March 10, 2025 at 6:20 PM
Let’s play a game called “Lyrics Chriso Heard Wrong from Behind the Drum Kit!” First up is “Elements of Withdrawal from our first album, ‘Dear John,’ did Chriso hear as “We all know…we’re cool?” (Truly an insult to @localindy.bsky.social’s superior lyrical skills! 🤣) Listen and guess!
Elements of Withdrawal, by Ex-Boyfriends
from the album Dear John
ex-boyfriends.bandcamp.com
March 10, 2025 at 12:23 AM
We solemnly swear that we will never attack you with a sudden country album, unlike so many artists today. But if you want something that makes you cry a tear in your beer Ex-Boyfriends style, give this a listen:
Goodnight, by Ex-Boyfriends
from the album In With
ex-boyfriends.bandcamp.com
March 9, 2025 at 5:07 AM
Hey hey, we’re on Bandcamp! All 3 of our albums are now available to stream and to download - pay as much or as little as you want! We’ll be adding some demos, non-album tracks and radio sessions soon too, so you can EXBF your hearts out! 💗💗💗
Ex-Boyfriends
Colin, Peter, Chriso ♾️
ex-boyfriends.bandcamp.com
March 8, 2025 at 6:19 PM
Bitesize was one of our favorite bands to play shows with AND they even played at Colin’s wedding! Just brilliant and whip smart and tender indie pop perfection.
FYI @bandcamp.com is waiving their revenue shares on sales today (Friday), so it's a great time to check out my music! Most of it has been with my previous noise-pop band Bitesize. you can purchase our entire discography (36 songs) for a mere $10.40!
bitesize.bandcamp.com
Bitesize
From 1997-2009, the San Francisco Bay Area’s Bitesize brought a little bit of sickness to indie-pop, filling their otherwise perfect two-minute long pop gems with awkward stops and starts, weird burst...
bitesize.bandcamp.com
March 8, 2025 at 8:43 AM