commanderboshtette 🖤
@commanderboshtette.blacksky.app
30-something ancom. Black & gq, they/them 🏳️⚧️. neurodivergent, disabled spoonie, & caregiver to disabled parent. fuck fibro.
jewelry & candle maker
jewelry & candle maker
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been debating whether to share this but it’s my birthday in 2 days (& i’m extremely depressed. parent is being extra abusive). i could really use some cheer rn
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venmo @ commanderboshtette
wants - www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/...
medical needs - www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/...
paypal.me/cdrboshtette
venmo @ commanderboshtette
family is drowning in debt —
- internet & cable have been cut off
- electricity & gas are next
- food?
- i can’t afford new brakes
- sibling has cancer (newest horrible thing that’s happened, not to mention the $$$ aspect)
- house needs repairs
& i’m suddenly (unpaid) caregiving for a 2nd person
- internet & cable have been cut off
- electricity & gas are next
- food?
- i can’t afford new brakes
- sibling has cancer (newest horrible thing that’s happened, not to mention the $$$ aspect)
- house needs repairs
& i’m suddenly (unpaid) caregiving for a 2nd person
a man is crying while laying on a couch and asking for help .
Alt: a man is crying while laying on a couch and asking for help .
media.tenor.com
December 3, 2025 at 11:21 PM
family is drowning in debt —
- internet & cable have been cut off
- electricity & gas are next
- food?
- i can’t afford new brakes
- sibling has cancer (newest horrible thing that’s happened, not to mention the $$$ aspect)
- house needs repairs
& i’m suddenly (unpaid) caregiving for a 2nd person
- internet & cable have been cut off
- electricity & gas are next
- food?
- i can’t afford new brakes
- sibling has cancer (newest horrible thing that’s happened, not to mention the $$$ aspect)
- house needs repairs
& i’m suddenly (unpaid) caregiving for a 2nd person
so tired & weak today… & i wake up feeling completely wiped out
December 3, 2025 at 9:27 PM
so tired & weak today… & i wake up feeling completely wiped out
why tf is pain so bad tonight
December 2, 2025 at 7:23 AM
why tf is pain so bad tonight
tfw you’re on your way out the door but the receptionist calls your childhood crush’s name & you’re torn between curiosity & getting tf out before he (if it’s even the same he) sees you (even tho you’re much cuter & slightly more social now)
December 1, 2025 at 5:08 PM
tfw you’re on your way out the door but the receptionist calls your childhood crush’s name & you’re torn between curiosity & getting tf out before he (if it’s even the same he) sees you (even tho you’re much cuter & slightly more social now)
what a horrible week
November 27, 2025 at 2:32 AM
what a horrible week
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one of the coolest things about ChatGPT is how you can actually just never use it. you can fill your whole entire life with simply not once using it. it's incredible.
November 25, 2025 at 4:15 PM
one of the coolest things about ChatGPT is how you can actually just never use it. you can fill your whole entire life with simply not once using it. it's incredible.
…wrong acct but my point still stands
November 26, 2025 at 5:45 AM
…wrong acct but my point still stands
they came up w/ the most transphobic revenge plot of the year, played by cis ppl, & all the stans are in the qrts like “omg what amazing rep 😍 diversity! a gl romance between a trans & a woman! don’t criticize, the author consulted psychiatrists, just wait til it airs! love is love”
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November 26, 2025 at 5:43 AM
they came up w/ the most transphobic revenge plot of the year, played by cis ppl, & all the stans are in the qrts like “omg what amazing rep 😍 diversity! a gl romance between a trans & a woman! don’t criticize, the author consulted psychiatrists, just wait til it airs! love is love”
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"From tragedy to survival: One grandmother cares for 36 grandchildren after losing her five sons in Israeli attacks during the genocide in Gaza. Here’s the story of Tita Reda Aliwa."
“They’ll Be Street Kids”: From a Mother of Five to Caregiver of 36 Orphaned Grandchildren in a Tent - Quds News Network
Inside a tent in a Gaza City neighborhood, Tita Reda Aliwa prepares a single meal for her 36 grandchildren. They jostle each other, each hoping to get just one spoonful of lentils.
qudsnen.co
November 24, 2025 at 4:33 AM
"From tragedy to survival: One grandmother cares for 36 grandchildren after losing her five sons in Israeli attacks during the genocide in Gaza. Here’s the story of Tita Reda Aliwa."
there hasn't been even a single moment of good sims news in so long 😩
November 24, 2025 at 2:45 AM
there hasn't been even a single moment of good sims news in so long 😩
lmao how did i manage to get the key that uses a battery size different from all the other nissans?!!!
having such a shitty night & this… hysterical
having such a shitty night & this… hysterical
November 23, 2025 at 3:19 AM
lmao how did i manage to get the key that uses a battery size different from all the other nissans?!!!
having such a shitty night & this… hysterical
having such a shitty night & this… hysterical
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Black trans women are paid dust by cis people and trans people. 21 is too young for a trans girl to die. It's not fucking fair. But per the course, Girlalala will be lost in a sea of stories of trans women of color who aren't as loved or as protected as we should be.
May she rest in peace.
May she rest in peace.
TikTok Star Girlalala Dies at 21 as Boyfriend Is Arrested on First-Degree Murder Charge
The creator, who had hundreds of thousands of followers, worked as a hairstylist in Pompano Beach, Fla.
ca.news.yahoo.com
November 18, 2025 at 8:49 PM
Black trans women are paid dust by cis people and trans people. 21 is too young for a trans girl to die. It's not fucking fair. But per the course, Girlalala will be lost in a sea of stories of trans women of color who aren't as loved or as protected as we should be.
May she rest in peace.
May she rest in peace.
i’m not at all convinced that my existence on this planet isn’t a huge mistake.
November 16, 2025 at 10:28 PM
i’m not at all convinced that my existence on this planet isn’t a huge mistake.
seriously? i’m being yelled at for NOT saying anything.
November 16, 2025 at 9:58 PM
seriously? i’m being yelled at for NOT saying anything.
2 well known disability advocates have died this week…
November 15, 2025 at 7:45 AM
2 well known disability advocates have died this week…
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Just an incalculable loss from which we won’t soon recover.
Alice was the best of us and I hope we all do (or keep doing) the kind of good work that burnishes her memory.
Fuck ableism. “Don’t let the bastards grind you down.”
Alice was the best of us and I hope we all do (or keep doing) the kind of good work that burnishes her memory.
Fuck ableism. “Don’t let the bastards grind you down.”
I don’t want to formulate words yet, but my friend Alice Wong, @sfdirewolf.bsky.social of the Disability Visibility Project, has passed.
Here are the words she left behind:
www.instagram.com/p/DREMDNBjnq...
Here are the words she left behind:
www.instagram.com/p/DREMDNBjnq...
Alice Wong on Instagram: "ID: Yellow background with black text "This is Alice's friend Sandy Ho, posting. Per Alice's wishes, this message is being shared at the time of her passing. Hi everyone, it ...
423 likes, 73 comments - alicatsamurai on November 14, 2025: "ID: Yellow background with black text "This is Alice's friend Sandy Ho, posting. Per Alice's wishes, this message is being shared at the t...
www.instagram.com
November 15, 2025 at 6:11 AM
Just an incalculable loss from which we won’t soon recover.
Alice was the best of us and I hope we all do (or keep doing) the kind of good work that burnishes her memory.
Fuck ableism. “Don’t let the bastards grind you down.”
Alice was the best of us and I hope we all do (or keep doing) the kind of good work that burnishes her memory.
Fuck ableism. “Don’t let the bastards grind you down.”
oh my god
rip alice
rip alice
November 15, 2025 at 7:02 AM
oh my god
rip alice
rip alice
my dr thinks my not-panic-attacks are panic attacks but as i’m on the verge of an actual panic attack i can say with all certainty that they’re nothing alike
i need to get ready for an event tomorrow & i can’t find the right thing so i’ve been running around looking everywhere
i need to get ready for an event tomorrow & i can’t find the right thing so i’ve been running around looking everywhere
November 15, 2025 at 4:06 AM
my dr thinks my not-panic-attacks are panic attacks but as i’m on the verge of an actual panic attack i can say with all certainty that they’re nothing alike
i need to get ready for an event tomorrow & i can’t find the right thing so i’ve been running around looking everywhere
i need to get ready for an event tomorrow & i can’t find the right thing so i’ve been running around looking everywhere
new brakes or groceries… 😭
November 13, 2025 at 8:25 PM
new brakes or groceries… 😭
no matter how much you get paid, it’s never enough. car repairs alone will wipe out most of it, but this is my only chance to make the repairs. making a grocery list (after months of only eating saltines & buttered pasta) should not be this terrifying
November 13, 2025 at 5:42 PM
no matter how much you get paid, it’s never enough. car repairs alone will wipe out most of it, but this is my only chance to make the repairs. making a grocery list (after months of only eating saltines & buttered pasta) should not be this terrifying
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I feel like this whole focus on the idea that releasing the Epstein files will topple Trump gives the deeply flawed impression that rapists - especially powerful ones - frequently get punished.
November 12, 2025 at 10:19 PM
I feel like this whole focus on the idea that releasing the Epstein files will topple Trump gives the deeply flawed impression that rapists - especially powerful ones - frequently get punished.
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“we’re all gonna get it” is every bit as defeatist and doomerist as “we can’t do anything about climate change”. why do so many who are so fervent about protecting the environment refuse to acknowledge this? is our collective health not equally important?
“Well everyone else was doing it too” is never a worthy excuse. Just because practically no one masks or keeps up with the alarming science on COVID doesn’t exempt everyone from responsibility.
#MaskUp and protect yourself and others. In the future, you’ll be glad you did.
#MaskUp and protect yourself and others. In the future, you’ll be glad you did.
November 12, 2025 at 11:00 PM
“we’re all gonna get it” is every bit as defeatist and doomerist as “we can’t do anything about climate change”. why do so many who are so fervent about protecting the environment refuse to acknowledge this? is our collective health not equally important?
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This is important. Please give if you can.
The occupation is still preventing the entry of medical supplies and so healthcare is extremely difficult to come by and expensive.
THREE women partnered with the giving circle need emergency medical help—and you can support them to secure medicine, doctor/hospital visits, nutritious food & water:
THREE women partnered with the giving circle need emergency medical help—and you can support them to secure medicine, doctor/hospital visits, nutritious food & water:
Keep Hope Alive: a Gaza Giving Circle
We are a team of volunteers in the US and UK, led by two sisters passionate about helping our friends on the ground keep their families and neighbors alive with food, water, & shelter. We saw that…
chuffed.org
November 12, 2025 at 7:19 AM
This is important. Please give if you can.
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People are in denial about how quickly they could become disabled, unhoused or food insecure
It can happen to anyone & it can happen in an instant
Folks act like those receiving assistance have failed
That they should “try harder”
The system is rigged. It’s failed us, not the other way around
It can happen to anyone & it can happen in an instant
Folks act like those receiving assistance have failed
That they should “try harder”
The system is rigged. It’s failed us, not the other way around
November 12, 2025 at 8:12 AM
People are in denial about how quickly they could become disabled, unhoused or food insecure
It can happen to anyone & it can happen in an instant
Folks act like those receiving assistance have failed
That they should “try harder”
The system is rigged. It’s failed us, not the other way around
It can happen to anyone & it can happen in an instant
Folks act like those receiving assistance have failed
That they should “try harder”
The system is rigged. It’s failed us, not the other way around
is it just me or are ppl so much worse lately about using the right names & pronouns???
November 11, 2025 at 8:12 PM
is it just me or are ppl so much worse lately about using the right names & pronouns???