Becca (She/Her)
@alifelearned.bsky.social
#Ideas and #quotes encouraging you to #bethechange you want to see in the world as I share my love for learning and knowledge 💜
#Mentalhealth; #Chronicillness; #Inequality & #Poverty issues; #FightingStigma; #WasteReduction; #LovelyLearnids; #LdnOnt
#Mentalhealth; #Chronicillness; #Inequality & #Poverty issues; #FightingStigma; #WasteReduction; #LovelyLearnids; #LdnOnt
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Becca (She/Her)
@alifelearned.bsky.social
· Mar 11
"Damage to the human spirit is particularly acute in a rich society that has removed the legal barriers to equality. The message in such societies: If you don’t make it, it’s your own fault. Poverty becomes unbearable. It destroys self-respect." - Schweickart
I asked Google what to do about my anorexia making me not want to eat, and it said to eat more often 🙄🤦♀️ lmfao
Google really has gone to hell
Google really has gone to hell
November 12, 2025 at 6:35 PM
I asked Google what to do about my anorexia making me not want to eat, and it said to eat more often 🙄🤦♀️ lmfao
Google really has gone to hell
Google really has gone to hell
November 12, 2025 at 4:52 PM
In episode 27 of my adventures #streaming #DiscoElysium on #Twitch we finally got into the dumpster behind the Whirling-In-Rags. I also found a set of stairs by the boardwalk that I cant figure out how to access yet & we learned that Cuno has been messing with the phasmid traps
Check out the video!
Check out the video!
Streaming Disco Elysium on Twitch: Episode 27 | ALifeLearned
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November 11, 2025 at 2:59 AM
In episode 27 of my adventures #streaming #DiscoElysium on #Twitch we finally got into the dumpster behind the Whirling-In-Rags. I also found a set of stairs by the boardwalk that I cant figure out how to access yet & we learned that Cuno has been messing with the phasmid traps
Check out the video!
Check out the video!
People's capacity to be shady is quite remarkable and endlessly president setting lately... especially when they pretend they weren't doing it
November 10, 2025 at 5:50 AM
People's capacity to be shady is quite remarkable and endlessly president setting lately... especially when they pretend they weren't doing it
"It's so easy to forget that life is supposed to feel like a deep breath and not a gasp."
November 9, 2025 at 4:05 AM
"It's so easy to forget that life is supposed to feel like a deep breath and not a gasp."
I'm simply awake in a world that chooses to sleep...
November 6, 2025 at 2:35 AM
I'm simply awake in a world that chooses to sleep...
I just thought of a funny phrase that made me think of you...
"You're hot, but you're like, spicy food hot. You make my face hurt" lolol
"You're hot, but you're like, spicy food hot. You make my face hurt" lolol
November 5, 2025 at 4:39 PM
I just thought of a funny phrase that made me think of you...
"You're hot, but you're like, spicy food hot. You make my face hurt" lolol
"You're hot, but you're like, spicy food hot. You make my face hurt" lolol
In episode 26 of my adventures #streaming #DiscoElysium on #Twitch the main topic of the stream was again doors. We finished exploring behind the door in the book store & then finally opened the cargo door! That lead to a whole tirade of dialogue that was a hoot to engage with
Check out the video!
Check out the video!
Streaming Disco Elysium on Twitch: Episode 26 | ALifeLearned
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November 4, 2025 at 3:16 AM
In episode 26 of my adventures #streaming #DiscoElysium on #Twitch the main topic of the stream was again doors. We finished exploring behind the door in the book store & then finally opened the cargo door! That lead to a whole tirade of dialogue that was a hoot to engage with
Check out the video!
Check out the video!
After over 10 years of being in & out of relationships I've come to learn a few things that I really wish I'd known in my 20s. For those without #trauma these points may seem very basic, but for those with unhealed #attachment wounds, they are often only learned through the school of hard knocks
Relationship Lessons I Wish I Knew at 25 | ALifeLearned
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November 2, 2025 at 9:32 PM
After over 10 years of being in & out of relationships I've come to learn a few things that I really wish I'd known in my 20s. For those without #trauma these points may seem very basic, but for those with unhealed #attachment wounds, they are often only learned through the school of hard knocks
It endlessly breaks my heart when I realize I had an overly inflated perspective of someone that I cared about deeply 💔
October 31, 2025 at 1:59 AM
It endlessly breaks my heart when I realize I had an overly inflated perspective of someone that I cared about deeply 💔
"Your comfort zone isn't protecting you. It's just keeping your brain from evolving"
October 30, 2025 at 11:51 PM
"Your comfort zone isn't protecting you. It's just keeping your brain from evolving"
You're drinking the coolaide, but telling yourself it's not that bad because you're filtering it through a purifier first... but trust me, it's still very much that bad
October 29, 2025 at 9:47 PM
You're drinking the coolaide, but telling yourself it's not that bad because you're filtering it through a purifier first... but trust me, it's still very much that bad
There's a lot of not-love mixed in with people's messy attempts to love
October 29, 2025 at 7:55 PM
There's a lot of not-love mixed in with people's messy attempts to love
"That's the thing about friends, isn't it? The more you love them, the more it hurts when they go."
October 29, 2025 at 4:03 AM
"That's the thing about friends, isn't it? The more you love them, the more it hurts when they go."
"There's no greater mystery than love and no greater risk. When it pays out, it makes you rich beyond compare. But when it doesn't, when your bet fails and you lose it all, will you fold? Or will you double down?"
October 28, 2025 at 2:28 PM
"There's no greater mystery than love and no greater risk. When it pays out, it makes you rich beyond compare. But when it doesn't, when your bet fails and you lose it all, will you fold? Or will you double down?"
"I'm not mean. I'm just not actively making you comfortable."
October 28, 2025 at 3:32 AM
"I'm not mean. I'm just not actively making you comfortable."
In episode 25 of my adventures #streaming #DiscoElysium on #Twitch the main topic of the stream was doors
1st we poked at the cargo door & then we checked out the church, where we met Tiago
We finished by breaching a long-time sealed door & adventuring around on the other side
Check out the video
1st we poked at the cargo door & then we checked out the church, where we met Tiago
We finished by breaching a long-time sealed door & adventuring around on the other side
Check out the video
Streaming Disco Elysium on Twitch: Episode 25 | ALifeLearned
YouTube video by ALifeLearned
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October 28, 2025 at 12:24 AM
In episode 25 of my adventures #streaming #DiscoElysium on #Twitch the main topic of the stream was doors
1st we poked at the cargo door & then we checked out the church, where we met Tiago
We finished by breaching a long-time sealed door & adventuring around on the other side
Check out the video
1st we poked at the cargo door & then we checked out the church, where we met Tiago
We finished by breaching a long-time sealed door & adventuring around on the other side
Check out the video
"Possession, my friends, is what most people mistake for love." - Alan Watts
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October 23, 2025 at 2:23 AM
"Possession, my friends, is what most people mistake for love." - Alan Watts
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Got fired last night because the politicians in #LdnOnt are either corrupt, petty children, or painfully centrist, ass kissing push overs, so today I'm all the Carrie's lolol
October 22, 2025 at 2:11 PM
Got fired last night because the politicians in #LdnOnt are either corrupt, petty children, or painfully centrist, ass kissing push overs, so today I'm all the Carrie's lolol
In episode 24 of my adventures #streaming #DiscoElysium on #Twitch, we wandered around the coast looking for phasmid traps and running into new people. We gained a new task to investigate the church for supposed ruffians and we learned a bit more about the murder victim. Check out the video!
Streaming Disco Elysium on Twitch: Episode 24 | ALifeLearned
YouTube video by ALifeLearned
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October 21, 2025 at 12:43 AM
In episode 24 of my adventures #streaming #DiscoElysium on #Twitch, we wandered around the coast looking for phasmid traps and running into new people. We gained a new task to investigate the church for supposed ruffians and we learned a bit more about the murder victim. Check out the video!
But what do I do with all this trauma?
That is the real question...
That is the real question...
October 20, 2025 at 4:23 AM
But what do I do with all this trauma?
That is the real question...
That is the real question...
Isn't it fun how "no comment" is in itself a comment? Lol
October 20, 2025 at 2:34 AM
Isn't it fun how "no comment" is in itself a comment? Lol
"Sure, validation from someone reluctant to give it is gratifying."
"But is it serving you?"
"But is it serving you?"
October 20, 2025 at 12:55 AM
"Sure, validation from someone reluctant to give it is gratifying."
"But is it serving you?"
"But is it serving you?"
No one is available to truly meet me where I'm at because I'm in a broken place that no one should have to go...
October 18, 2025 at 7:57 PM
No one is available to truly meet me where I'm at because I'm in a broken place that no one should have to go...
How does one get rid of the "lonely" feeling?
I just noticed that I've mostly been running from it & avoiding it but never actually working through it
I have friends & community ties
But I also have a story in my head that Im alone if I dont have an intimate partner
How do I dismantle this story?
I just noticed that I've mostly been running from it & avoiding it but never actually working through it
I have friends & community ties
But I also have a story in my head that Im alone if I dont have an intimate partner
How do I dismantle this story?
October 18, 2025 at 6:39 PM
How does one get rid of the "lonely" feeling?
I just noticed that I've mostly been running from it & avoiding it but never actually working through it
I have friends & community ties
But I also have a story in my head that Im alone if I dont have an intimate partner
How do I dismantle this story?
I just noticed that I've mostly been running from it & avoiding it but never actually working through it
I have friends & community ties
But I also have a story in my head that Im alone if I dont have an intimate partner
How do I dismantle this story?